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WHY FIGHT WHEN YOU CAN MEDIATE?
FASTER…..LESS STRESSFUL…..AFFORDABLE DIVORCE……
Divorce Options
Mediation vs. Litigation
| Mediation | Litigation | |
| Who Controls the Process? | You and your spouse control the process and make final decisions | Attorneys control of the process and the Judge makes final decisions |
| Degree of Adversity | You and your spouse pledge mutual respect and openness | Court process is based on an adversarial system |
| Cost (See below) | The least expensive | Attorney’s fees and costs are unpredictable.Usually in the THOUSANDS |
| Time table | You and your spouse create the timetable | Judge sets the timetable; delayed by crowded court calendars |
| Involvement of Lawyers | NONE | Lawyers fight to win, but often You and your spouse loses |
| Privacy | Mediations are completely confidential | Dispute becomes a matter of public record and, sometimes, media attention |
| Facilitation of Communication | You, your spouse and the mediator | No process designed to build communication |
| Lines of Communication | You and your spouse communicate directly with the assistance of the mediator | You and your spouse negotiate through your lawyers, often impairing communication with your spouse |
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